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As parents, where our children are and what they are doing is always a concern. Of course it depends on the age of the child as to how you can control and guide the child. If they are young and in grade school it is much easier to guide and monitor what your child is doing and you can tell them when to be home and what time etc. plus you will usually find them where they were told to be.
It is very Important from a young age that they know you make the rules in the house or they will be grounded and punished in some respect.
If you do not carry through with your wishes and rules they will try you and sense that you are weak and they will be able to do pretty much what they want to do.
When they reach their teen's their attitude changes drastically and you then must monitor not only your child but who they are associating and friends with. Associating and keeping company with questionable friends may lead to a negative outcome in the end and your child doing things that you have always told your child not to do.
As your child gets older their curfew times will change and they may start challenging the time you set and also what they are going to do and go. You as a parent must be stern and strict with the rules of your household and let them know that you are still in charge and doing things for their benefit and good. Keep in mind that children are very smart and clever and will try numerous ways to manipulate you in order to get their way etc.
By administering and setting and teaching them to be responsible, to respect everyone and grow up to be good prosperous citizens as adults.
Do you know where your child is?? This is a nightmare for so many parents therefore start demanding and insisting from an early age that they listen and follow your requests and instructions. In short!!! Mold your child at an early age.
Appropriate manners for children:
Be respectful and courteous to everyone.
Listen to adults, their ideas and opinions without criticism.
Keep from interrupting others. Avoid talking over someone and apologize if you do.
Respect others and their belongings.
Treat everyone fairly and equally.
Include your friends in activities and discussions when possible.
Speak, calmly and clearly without shouting or yelling. A loud voice can be very intimidating.
Be generous with compliments and limit criticism.
Say "please", "thank you", "you're welcome" as part of your daily routine.
Take instructions gracefully.
Treat others as they wish to be treated.
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